Halloween FR

My weekend in a short summarized version:

Clubs: The Bank, Funky Budha, The Dancing Monkey, and Wolly Bollies.

Fact: It doesn't matter where you go. An idea that was ingrained in my head; was that your success was highly dependent on the place you go. On the crowd you normally socialize yourself around. This weekend has taught me, that this is a load of shit. Your success is derived from your own self motivation, your ability to adapt, to try something new and challenge the hardest obstacles. Familiar territory will not make your game any tighter. It may - psychologically - make you feel more comfortable; but a bar is a bar.

Sets: There were some good sets. There were some okay sets. And than - there were the sets that got away. The ones that didn't reply or gave me the most grief, for the life of me, I can't recall. The sets that stick out to me were the two beautiful women surrounded by their friends that I classified as 9s and above (which is rare in this city) whom I wanted to talk to. Whom I wanted to run game on, get their numbers and take them home. Alas - this weekend, my balls dropped. And I'm not satisfied with that. Not even the slightest. Instead I chased after a girl, who danced and grind with me for majority of the night and stole my lock in prop. That's what I get for chasing.

Lessons: Use the method I set for myself. I invested in a bootcamp - and maybe used 2 % of that material. I barely use a canned opener; follow a game plan, run any kino. The whole point of playing the game is to get the girl by strategically coming up with a game plan before getting to the field. And I can already tell that comment alone will cause some feedback. But consider Keys to the VIP. The judges base their winner off their ability to game. Not based on their results -especially the competitors fluke out and get a lucky kiss. It's about consistency.

Fuck the social dynamics of the room is my second lesson. Yes, become the most social person there; but do it because you want to have fun and get the mouth moving. The last thing we, as PUAs need to worry about - is how everyone is perceiving them at every second. If I fuck up a room because my game is that horrific and unrecoverable, I should bounce to a new club or at the very least go home laughing about the stupid shit I pulled. I'm sick of playing these imaginary scenes in my head of what it would have been like to approach a 9 (Very beautiful women intimidate me. The secret is out - now you know my weakness...push me to overcome it).

Story telling is crucial. We can all laugh about some stupid routine. We can spin a girl, mess with her hair, call her names and neg her all night. And true this may break the ice and maybe cause some tension...women want a man of value. A powerful story teller shows signs of being seductive, powerful and interesting. 'Keep her entertained now....and she'll keep you entertained later.'

Promise(s): I promise that I will push harder and harder every night I go out. I will get good at this - no matter at what cost. I promise to my wing(s), that I will raise your value - and not lower it. I promise to bring you into exciting sets, so we can all have fun and get to meet new and cool people. I promise to set goals for myself and go after them.

The Good: I locked in. I used a prop. I attempted to disarm obstacles, and I opened a mixed set - the first in a long time.

What needs to be implemented next time: Sexual tension. Kino - touching in a guiding/dominant manner. Let her crave for it - to know what it feels to be seduced by a real man. No more - 'I'll just brush her arm before I move into the kiss'. Take charge!

That's what I learned this Halloween.

- Charisma