FR 8 Oct 2009

Date: 08 Oct 09
Location: Edmonton, OilCity Night Club
Wing(s): Link

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Hey guys, before I start going in depth of what happened 20 minutes ago; I want to start sticking my reports into this section because I want you guys who are serious about the Venusian Arts to critique and learn from I post on here. It's great that there's a FR section in the overall forum, but I was always under the impression that the VIP section would be more underground and filled with countless FRs/LRs from guys who attended boot camps.

So this is the first of many FRs that are coming your way from me. Hope to read some from all of you; and I want you guys to be straight up and direct as possible about my overall game.

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The night starts off with us getting into state. My roommate and wing Link decide to rev our moods while singing some karaoke/rock band. We go full out. There's a lot to learn about how a person's body language reacts while singing, not to mention it's a great way to warm up the vocal diaphragm so as to project your overall speech.

We decide to take off to The Union, which is a club located on one end of the city. We figured we start the night off early so we can run some decent game. And I'll be honest gentlemen, I haven't been pushing myself as hard as I could be nor seeing the results I want to be having at this point of being in 'the game'. We pull up and we see - no word of a lie - 20 guys come out of separate vans and trucks, prepping to go hit the night club. At this point there's not even a line, no women in sight. So we bounce off to another club - OilCity.

As we walk by the windows of the venue, we can see that the club is jammed packed with beautiful women. (Good Call) So we get in, and without a moment's hesitation I start off small talk to get myself going. Simple things, like asking for the time, using canned openers that I haven't used in a long period of time. Work out the cob webs so to speak.

We made decent company with a bartender HB 8, who was overall a pleasure to talk to, while though I made it a mental note to come talk to her again - I forgot to do because of the other amount of sets I was involved with. Looking back, I should have backwards merged my sets back, to portray some value and get a jealousy plot line thrown in for good measure. Ran some lines and new routines I've never field tested and was overall surprised on the feedback. The girls ate it up!

Things like Mystery's story :

'You know, my ex girlfriend always made me shave; to the point where it came to become a habit. But tonight for whatever reason, I didn't want to come out for the intent of having sex. But while I was in the shower - halfway of getting my bush taken care of - I realized how congruent that really was. And I can't have half a bush sticking on the other end. But than it hit me! I don't feel sexy unless I fully shave my face, and as you can see - I'm rugged as they come. Here...give me your hand...see? What about you, did you shave your legs tonight? Ah - what we're you thinking? '

Seriously was blown away how powerful this was.

I recalled at one point me and Link were creating missions for each other because we were slowly straying away from opening and having a fun time. So we started picking things up by going in Direct - which I NEVER do. I've always been terrified of doing so. Even Matador at one point told me straight up, 'Dude...cut the crap with the opinion openers. Go in - say what's really on your mind...try something new'...but I could never do it.

Until tonight.

2 set, a beautiful HB 8.5 and her friend. I walk straight into the trajectory of the blonde HB girl.
'Hi, I'm Charisma. I think you're sexy as fuck!' ...She blushes and I seriously at that point made her fucken day.

Here I am, in awe - wondering to myself, 'How is this even working?! Don't these girls get hit on all the time?!?!' Than it hit me. It's about confidence, delivery, the congruency and frame of mind. I felt truly dominant - like I stepped inside the mind of Matador for just a brief moment.

Everything went well, my wing was introduced, I was able to isolate the target - but my kino was half fast. I was starting to run routine after routine and I began to realize I was losing my target. At the time, I couldn't figure it out. 'What was I doing wrong?!'

Than I began to realize I wasn't telling stories of DHV. I wasn't allowing her a chance to qualify herself to me. I wasn't aggressive enough with my kino - making her feel that lust and attraction from someone who knows what they want and when they want in. Women....they want to surrender to your spell. That's half the game!

By ignoring this, ignoring the fact she was obviously attracted to me, that I had the chance to press harder and staying in my comfort zone - I realized too late why I lost the girl.

But tonight has been an eye opening experience. I like the power - the dominance to be able to walk up to a girl and throw my intentions out in the open. No bull shit story, no routines to hide behind - just my sexual lust for a woman. Don't get me wrong - Mystery Method has been very beneficial to me; but sometimes I need to change it up with a little direct opening.

In the end, direct doesn't change anything.

It's still A1 -> A2 -> A3 and so on.

So much to take from tonight, and I hope to put it to practice again tomorrow night hopefully. But it's getting late, and I wanted to post this FR while it was still fresh in my head. I promise the next few will be better edited.

- Charisma