Insecurities

Insecurities
• Too Skinny
• Don’t own a car
• When wearing specs, I feel as I come across as a nerd
• I get intimidated when talking to women who are very attractive
• My skin gets greasy and have mild acne
• My mental state can easily take a turn for the worse
• I can’t run mixed sets
• I feel as if my game isn’t tight enough; even after my boot camp
• I have been single for a long period of time, and nothing to show for it

These are things that I need to overcome. 4real really brought up a really good point; be a man. I need to stop worrying and fussing over these minor details and realize that even though these things are considered flaws to my nature – they are what make me human. The sooner I realize that these details are very minor; I can overcome them and truly improve as a human being.
How am I going to fix these insecurities?
With no action or drive to improve, they will always exist. I have the power to change things in my life...so what am I going to personally do to fix these things?
• Too Skinny – Hit the gym. Go on a weight training plan and stick to it 4 times a week. I recently signed up for a gym; it’s time to take advantage of it.
• Don’t own a car – I should be considering taking a driver’s course; but need to worry about my debts first and take care of them. The more effort I take to follow a certain budget, the sooner I can afford expenses such as a car.
• Wearing specs – I can’t afford new ones, and sometimes I can’t always wear contacts. It’s all in the mind. They’re a piece of accessory that is all. They’re removable. I should need nothing in this world that is concrete to make me happy.
• Attractive women – Yes they intimidate me. But that is because I’m not desensitized by beauty yet. That means I really need to construct a proper cheat sheet, truly hone my game and practice it on sets; where I actually want to get the girl.
• Greasy skin – Eat appropriate foods that respond better with the chemical imbalance in my body. This will help me feel better, get more energy and do better when it comes down to weights. Also tan more – that seems to fix the problem to a mild degree.
• Mental state – It’s all about positive thinking. Truly make an effort to put a positive spin of things. Stop taking things personal and always looking at it from a negative angle.
• Mixed sets – Practice and overcome. Become the tribal leader/alpha male.
• Game – Practice. Take time out of the day to work on self and inner/outer game. Reconsider the basics.
• Single – Take as an opportunity to grow. Don’t worry about relationships – just worry about meeting people/friends. Go after one night stands, go after my manly instincts and get what I want. Stop chasing after girls – make them chase you.