Charisma

The Avatar Appearance:

How I dress, look and react with my body language contributes a lot to how people view me. The whole idea of being peacocky is to stand out the crowd. If I walk around with certain pieces of clothing that will catch people's attention, I need to be comfortable in it. I can't allow myself to second guess/doubt my sense of style.

The style that I am to go after is meant to tell a lot about myself in a 10 second assesstment. I'm sexual, I'm outgoing, unafraid of what the world has to offer me. Bold and unique; a rebel seeking to grasp life by the horns. But if I'm not congruent with that, I'm missing out somewhere. So I realize now that the mocking tones and quick glances are all in my head. I am the designer of my own universe.

Personality upon Approach:

Playful - social. Interested to meet people and making new friends. (worry about hitting on the target after I've engaged the group of people and disarmed them.) I should have the innocent carefree air (which ties strongily to what Matador pushed so hard on me with emotional state at the Mystery Method Bootcamp). But this is only on the approach.

Personality upon Connection:

Now the DHVs need to come in. I need to be able to protray that I am a sexual human being and I don't need to apologize for that. I am confident, a powerful social speaker/story teller. I have to portray my value, my ability to stimulate powerful emotions; drawing people into my life. Making it an honor to be involved. This is the lifestyle I want most!

But most importantily my game flaws in one area, and that's in comfort. I need to be able to create that power of itmacy with a girl, the emotional connection - the hook that makes a girl give you the puppy dog eyed look.

This....is Charisma.

This is who I want to be and who I am.