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The Game.

It's what we commonly refer it to. Sarging, opening sets, going out and 'mac-in on some hoes'. It's fun, and it's a carefree life with it's definite ups and perks.

But I think somewhere along the line of reading material, watching videos and meeting up with people in the lair; we forgot the whole reason why we got into this.

I can only speak for myself and the people I acquaint myself tightly to; but aren't we in the game to better ourselves? To master the social concepts to get a woman into our lives (and notice how I just didn't say into the bedroom....that's just an added bonus)? To rid ourselves of our doubts and become comfortable in our skin, around and without women?

Gents - what I seen the other day at Rockstars made me sick to my stomach. And I'll explain as to why. When I saw the large group of PUAs hitting on that one lone set; something stuck inside me. It felt at that moment the whole world was slowing down. I saw that woman's body language - arms crossed, chin down, closed off to the world. She was walking alone - meaning something was definitely up.

And the way they all circled her.

'Hey baby - whats up? You like to party?'

That tone....even though it was a quote from a movie and it may have been humorous....it reminded me of the mocking tones when I was a nerdy AFC; where the 'cool' group would mock and haggle me non-stop.

I felt sick to my stomach, and the feelings I was experiencing could be read through her features. And I was sitting more than 20 feet from her! Is this the feeling we want women to experience in our interactions? Is this what being a PUA is all about? Mocking and laughing at them as if they are objects?

I'm not going to lie; that rubbed me the wrong way. We're no longer viewing them as human beings. Don't view them as superiors - of that I agree with - but don't degrade them!

Even if it's for laughter to walk into the next set with a good, healthy, fun, mentality. Don't step on people to get there; it's not necessary.

So what I'm saying is: Stop viewing this as an actual Game. Yes, use that analogy to help you move on when you hit a rough patch, and girls treat you like shit; you can move on. But don't lose value in humanity.