Charisma the Venusian Artist – Mastering the Mystery Method Post # 2
Friday, October 24/2008
Game: Night
Field: The Bank/The Druid
Wingmen: SeflishGene
SelfishGene and I made our way to the bank – overcoming the urge to stay in the house and miss out on the opportunity to go and mingle with the social night life of the city of Edmonton. We make it clear to each other that we have to approach sets, and push past our sticking points – if at the very least – overcome the Approach Anxiety.
SelfishGene’s mission was to approach sets without the use of liquor courage – so as to become a natural approach machine. My mission that night was to practice the use of building a powerful emotional state – so I can use whatever opener I wanted – canned or uncanned; because that’s who I am.
The bank was a disappointment for the number of sets available – not to mention the music was over powering when it came to approach a set and becoming clear and loud. Normally when I make these excuses in my head; I tend to stray to another bar, angry and miserable because I lacked the balls to approach – justifying my reasons.
This did not happen. Instead, I pointed a two set to SelfishGene, who was hugely overcome by AA; and though he refused to open the set, I took it as an opportunity to crash and burn. I ran the set – not successfully, they walked away in the middle of my opener – but I didn’t seem phased. The worse case scenario was played out on my first approach – and I didn’t care. I actually laughed and shrugged it off as I approached another two set at the other end of the bar.
It’s difficult for me to explain what happened – it was if I was filled with this immense amount of energy and was just having fun socializing and talking to groups – dragging them into my reality. For once, since I played this Game – I truly felt like the prize.
Boom – Boom – Boom
Set after set. I was having FUN! The more sets I ran, the more bold I became. I started using openers that didn’t require verbal use – reading several posts that body language is 90% of the communication displayed. Fingering girls to come to me; eyeing girls up and down when facing them – as to put them under the spot light and shrug as if was no big deal (it really wasn’t!).
Eventually we bounced from The Bank – since the played reeked of sausage. But SelfishGene ran one opener before he left – which surely wasn’t his last.
He would later run a set at the druid at the bar, by befriending someone to the left of him – than turning to another set to the right. (He lacked the lock in, but everything else was good!) He was starting to get in his element. Our energy began hopping between the two of us. Recharging our drive to open more sets and play them out.
Watching SelfishGene open another set, I circle the club, and find a mixed set. Ran the opener with such ease and fluency, they were hooked. We exchanged greetings and left the group since they were a couple (shown later in through kino and further into the opener). But they were fun people! Very interesting! I wanted to make note to come back to this set if I need to backwards merge.
I would later run into a few friends who gave us value, since most of them were girls, and I opened a two set in our proximity on the dance floor, while I and SelfishGene winged each other. I wasn’t interested in either of the girls, but he selected a target. I than dragged the obstacle to meet my friends, and we shot the shit, as my wing ran some minor routines on his target. Everything was done so under the radar – and based on my emotional state and the way I was all night – it didn’t feel like I was using gambits – they just…happened.
Though we didn’t close any sets that night – we left happy and full of vitality and energy. There were sticking points – don’t get me wrong, but I didn’t feel that it could have gotten better. The night was fun, exciting, I met new people – and I had this calm feeling that I was on the proper path to what I want to achieve in this community. (Meanwhile my relationship with my current girl is growing, which is slowing my game when it comes to progressing, but I think I might push that – even if it sounds a little in-moral.
In the end I will go back to her – and I am truthful about my nature and who I am. If I want another girl, I will do just that. End the relationship and go after another. (now that’s a different conversation entirely).
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