My first recorded Field Report – posted on themysterymethod.com, under the attraction forums.
User name: Charisma/Ego
Category: Journal
Date:
“I think this would be a perfect for placing my field report in. Since obviously i need to start one.
Last night - wasn't the most impressive night for sarging wise. Now i just started actually playing the Game a few weeks ago - as to how i changed because of it - would be months.
I and two other guys that I usually hang around were waiting to get into
- From what I recall, I remember the guys pawning as much attention towards the two women, who – as most girls do – try to bud in line so they can begin their wild party frenzy. If they have to step on a few guys to do it, than so be it.
- Now as to whom I went out with that night, I can only recall Bud Blackburn, but in either case, I tried to make the best of the situation; and though my knowledge on how to run openers wasn’t supreme….I at least attempted something. This will be described further on. (Notice: AT LEAST TRIED SOMETHING)
“Pitiful
Basically, i waited for a small period, and evidentially the set took their spot (why wouldn't they? we were the front of the line) and I turned around and faced the set from the side, with an unimpressed look.
One of the targets had another bright idea. We were the next to enter the club, and she tried to get ahead of me and my buddies; and just when my friends were jumping to the side I jumped into the fray.
'WOAH! who the hell do you think you are? *smile* you're not getting ahead of me! I’m afraid if you’re going to use your looks, you have to out beat me - and it’s not going to happen.'”
- Not the cleverest opening line….
- But it opened the set in the long run, and there was some edge of confidence. I was semi treating myself as the prize and diminishing their worth. (Aim at making this more congruent)
“Somehow, we were arguing about who had the sexiest boobs (man boobs, ha-ha) and she felt mine and she took my hand and placed it on hers (ho yeah!) but I passed her shit test...
'Sorry, they’re really not that big...'
Neg...”
- This is not a Neg
- A Neg is backhanded compliment or unintentional insult.
“But i came out to strong, and I knew I might have pushed it a little too far. But hey, that’s experience for you.”
- Very True
- The best knowledge and skills adapt from the field
“So in the club (it was packed), I tried using new openers, but they wouldn’t hook, rather than relying on the same ones everyone uses. I rather be unique...and original.”
- The opener didn’t fail. I used the wrong form of using them – for example, asking questions like an interviewer
- Unique openers are – once again, derived from field experience. Use canned material until you have the natural vibe, to the point where you won’t need canned material anymore. But canned material has been proven to work. Unless I’m hooking every conversation, stay away from ideas as this.
“I don't want to be a Social Robot as Style put it...
Needless to say, i couldn't open a set properly, and the music and my slight feeling of claustrophobia got in the way. So I walked away empty handed.
- It’s all in the head.
“But i might reconsider going to over packed clubs. So i suppose there was a lesson to be learned. Find a place that’s comfortable to you.”
- A place becomes comfortable once you expose yourself again and again
- Don’t clutch to comforting false ideals
“Hopefully i fill more of these, and improve vastly on a variety of things.”
- Which I will
- Lessons to be learnt: Opening requires the use of body language, voice, social vibe, smile, and value. Especially Value.
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