EMSIC –
My first recorded Field Report posted on socialimprovementclub.com/forums, under Field Reports. (Note: you need to be a member to view the other files.)
(Location: Canadian Forces Base
User name: Charisma
Category: Journal
Date:
Sun of a Beach
Yo, Charisma here.
This Field Report is going to be strictly to the point; and it's going to be written more in point form, since I already pre-recorded the sets and events on paper.
So without further a-due, here’s Charisma's Field Report File # 6 - Sun of a Beach.
Prior to The Social Event 'Sun of a Beach':
* Hung out with Ashley and her friends as they pre-drank the shit out of themselves while I watch in bewilderment as they transformed into super gossipy, sex driven, hysterical women.
* I'll be honest when i say that i was slightly out of my league boys. I seriously had no idea what to interject into the conversations, and i'll admit i felt incredibly socially uncomfortable around these three women (though, i did manage to discover other timbits of info, so it wasn't a wasteful occurrence - info which might prove useful to me later on). Considering i never been in the presence of just women with no guys around. Made me realize how I have to re-structure my game, and get socially vibed with women in general.
* So while they were getting their makeup ready, i sat in the living room watching UFC while texting Skorch for a specific favour...To give me missions for the night...
* The first text he sent me was fairly simple. Open 5 sets and make them laugh in less than a minute. Okay - rock on, I have some motivation now!
* Once i finished texting my dear boy Skorch, Ashley propped beside me on the couch and looked at me for a moment. 'Do you mind if i sit here?'
I responded with, 'As a matter of fact, i would highly prefer if you sat in the corner in the dark, where we're completely on two opposites sides of the room....*smiles*' She than laughs and moves in to kiss me. I move my cheek to the side, and she looks at me sadly.
* We agreed (even though we already have) to lose any potential between us. We shake on it, and suddenly a little demon inside began to awaken...my old PUA spark...
* She stays distantly away from me - which to me seemed natural - i accidentally brought her hopes up - but hey, that’s the way it is.
At the Social:
Here's where it sounds more like a FR....
1 - Jealous Girlfriend Opener : Got to the hook point, however, I didn't address the entire group and my voice wasn't loud enough - therefore i pecked. Set over.
3 - Do I Look Gay Openers - 2 of the 3 sets laughed (2 for Skorch's count), 2 of the 3 sets I managed to reach the hook point, paid more attention and focused on everyone else, my voice was propagating a lot farther. 1 Set went as far to give me fashion advice. At this point I should have negged with, 'Pssssh, who are you to give me fashion advice? I mean look at your sandals, they soooo don't match your outfit. So anyways get this -' and i could have jumped into my Toronto Gay Story Routine.
1 - Rock, Paper, Scissors - I heard this somewhere, and after attempting to field test it, it was incredibly awkward. There was no route for it, and i had nothing to follow it up. (I lost by the way)
1 - Who Do you think lies more opener - Poor delivery in voice, pecking again, poor body rocking (none actually), No hook point - therefore ejected. (LACK OF NEG)
1 - High Five Opener (Used after two different women used it on me earlier that night, so i figured i use it) and implemented a thumb war. Which i challenged the HB, who she was vaingloriously trying to win, when i took my opposite hand to pin her thumb down and counted as fast as i could to 10. She laughed and enjoyed it and her friend tried to do it to me. Good energy! (Another laugh for Skorch).
1 - Situational opener - I was on my way to the bar to grab a glass to fill it with water, when suddenly a fight behind me about 20 feet broke out, and i was shoved against the bar with a tidal wave of people as they cleared a circle for them. A lone wolf was trapped directly beside me. 'I'm on to you. You're just trying to use this as an excuse to get closer to me aren't you?' She giggled and rolled her eyes saying, 'Well you know, i had to be close to you'. Eventually lost her in the tidal wave of arms reaching forward for more drinks (4000 tickets were sold, gives you an idea doesn’t it?). (1 more laugh for Skorch).
So the first 5 sets i opened - (4/5) laughed! So i messaged Skorch and asked for another mission.
Which he than returned with, 'Open three sets and insult their shoes in three different ways!'
My heart dropped. Negging is my ultimate Sticking point. I responded with, 'But they're all wearing sandals...'
And go figure, Skorch replied with, 'Exactly =D'
1 - Do I look Gay Opener - Reached the hook, reached the root, negged the target about her grey plain running shoes. 'Those shoes look really comfortable...' which i didn't just plough through to a story, rather i let her react. AMOG stole the set from me and i was baffled. That was my first AMOG encounter.
(1/3 for Skorch)
1- OH MY GOD! opener - 'I love your sandals! they're so peak cocky! *grins* She laughed and winked at me and walked off. For some reason when I concentrate about Negging I forget about the rest of the game structure...hmmm, new sticking point.
1- Un-responded, 'Wow, way to be festive! Nice green sandals!' - AFC
1- Set opened me - HB tries to steal my Hawaiian flower necklace - 'Hey, hands off, this shit ain't free. Its going to cost you 5 bucks every time you touch!' Her friend cuts in, '5 bucks?! what a rip off' as i respond, 'For you its half price. Your friend on the other hand....' She laughs while the HB gives me the puppy dog eyed look - FINALLY NEGGED - 'Oh my god! Your friend is so clingy! is she always like this - honestly how do you roll with her?' Had nothing to follow it up and ejected politely.
STICKING POINTS
1 - A1 to A2
2 - Following up Routines, memorize them if so have to!
3 - Body Rocking
4 - Negging, Negging, Negging!
5 - Voice Propagation
6 - Inner Game - Self confidence around new people
7 - ALWAYS FOLLOW THE 3 SECOND RULE (i could have had three times the sets i did that night if i didn't doubt myself 2/3's of the time!)
8 - NEGGING!!!!!
(by the way Skorch, the sandal mission makes sense now. thanks bro!)
-Charisma
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