EMSIC –
My first recorded Field Report posted on socialimprovementclub.com/forums, under Field Reports. (Note: you need to be a member to view the other files.)
(Location: Canadian Forces Base
User name: Charisma
Category: Journal
Date: Feb 2007 (There were many other field reports that were posted on Scorch’s blog, but have been deleted for the months of Nov-Jan)
Charisma’s Field Report File #1
Foreword:
Gentlemen, I would like to first start by saying that I know that I don't post as much as I should.
But I assure you there's a very good reason why I refrain my posting on a regular basis.
I'm sure most of you have been around the MMF; and as a result, you've seen countless times, guys posting advice on the board, when in reality they are in no position to give any. Since most lack the initiative to follow their own advice.
So rather being a 'keyboard guru', I'm going to post what information I find, is dramatically important to my – and everyone else’s, self progress.
That being said: Field Reports are automatically given; regardless of success or failure.
My field reports will be a gauge to prove to myself what level I’m currently on. Which by the way, you are all more than welcome to critique me. Output is always appreciated.
Therefore I’m making it my own mission to sarge or at the very least, be around women one day out of the seven in a week. However, living in CFB Shilo, really does makes it that much more difficult to sarge.
Excuses…- we have to try to our outmost ability, and expose ourselves again and again, if we are to improve on our techniques. So the goal is to update my FR once a week.
Now without further interruptions - on to the Field Report
Actual Field Report:
The day started like any other, get up - get dressed - shave - eat - go to work - get trapped in a snow bank on the way to work – and deal with broken pieces of electronics all day.
My mentality at work isn't close to as comparable to my mentality as a Training PUA when I’m out with my friends.
- This is no longer an issue
It’s something that has been brought to my attention, and I deem to fix that small detail. Confidence at work, will improve your confidence at the field. After all, the Game begins at the break of day, just when you do.
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The work day finally ends, and I grab my martial arts uniform and head off for my second session of Jiu Jitsu. Hopefully stimulate the blood.
It did the trick.
So when I arrived back to the shacks, fumbling for my keys to open my door to my single bedroom; I suddenly find myself thinking, 'You know what? I'm sick of this routine – staying on a Thursday night, when I can go out and have fun!'
I than high tail it to the second floor and knock on my buddy's door, Justin and Jeff - and basically tell them that we're going to be heading out for the night.
Needless to say they were all up for it. So we decide to split a cab three-way (60$ total) to go downtown.
Well we finally get to the bar.
And the first thing I do after putting my jacket in the coat check is open a quick set (nothing too extreme).
Charisma: 'Hey guy's, where do you go to sign up for riding the bull?' *Every Thursday night, they have this bull like contraption which is held in place by pulleys and ropes a top the dance floor. At approx 12am, they pick 8 random names from those who signed a waver form to ride the bull, to see who gets the longest timing (there’s some prize involved, but I don’t remember what) ‘I’ve wanted to do it for a long time now, and I think tonight is the night!’
HB 7: ‘You're not planning on actually riding that thing!?’
HB 8: (married) ‘You rock! I'd so do it with you!’
Charisma: ‘Oh snap! You know, I bet if we bribe them enough - we could get all three of us on there at one time. How awesome would that be?’
(Set gets energetic; we give high fives, and have a laugh)
HB 7: ‘I was actually thinking of signing up....’
Charisma: ‘We'll let’s sign up together! Come on - you only live once - besides, it'll be one hell of a blast!’
HB 7: (she looks at me)
Charisma: ‘We have to hurry before there are no positions left (grabs HB 7 Hand lightly and slowly direct her towards the opposite end of the bar. Kino test - she grips tightly as I start to let go) *IOI
We sign the waver, and the HB 8 ends up chickening out at the last moment. They eventually go off to the shooter bar, not before trying to convince me to buy them the shots.
Charisma: ‘Sorry, but I quit drinking. Besides, I’m not a big fan on the whole ‘buying girls’ drinks’ thing’
HB 8 - You're SOBER?!
(Both the HB 7 and HB 8 look at me as if I have two heads)
Charisma: ‘I don't need alcohol to have a good time with my friends. Which reminds me, you guys should so totally meet them!’
So the HB 7 and the HB 8 start heading over to the shooter bar…but not before the HB7 (Ashley by the way) looks back at me for a moment, as if contemplating on staying behind.)
Charisma: ‘Something tells me I haven't seen the last of you two! Go off, I’ll be with my friends if you’re looking for me’
So I rejoin Justin and Jeff and a few other army boys.
Justin – who is a complete natural, with a real awesome Game frame, was going off about body language and how to read people. While also pointing out who would be the most receptive and who would not.
We than hit to the dance floor for a few tunes, wind down a bit, have and just simply have fun.
Well, we ran into no other than Ashley and two of her other friends.
She than starts to dance towards me; and we shoot the shit for a bit. She asks me for my name; I give it to her. She than asks if there’s another nick name I can go by, rather than using Jean-Yves. It’s not an easy name to remember...
'Call me Charisma'
HB 7: OMG! I LOVE IT! That so suits you! Who gave you that name? *IOI
I lie about how my friends called me that in Kingston due to the fact that I was able to befriend anyone (build the character right?)
So finally the mock mechanical bull comes down, which I never got to ride by the way, and Ashley was actually one of the names called out by the DJ. She doesn’t last very long and I tease her for a bit and we have a laugh about it watching other people trying to attempt it.
So we do some light dancing, which becomes a little more interactive between her and I, where I simply react by pushing her away gently (2 steps forward, 1 step back) which she severely enjoyed.
Charisma: 'You're getting to close'
Anyways, one thing led to another - and I ended directing her to the upstairs portion of the club, which is less nosy than the bottom floor. We grab a few seats and we start to chat about anything – really.
Well - this is my sticking point boys. Telling stories…
Once I isolate, it feels like I have a new anxiety where I can’t seem to think clearly and recall the stories of DHV until conversation actually starts to flow. Is there a way to by-pass this without acting like an AFC and pull the question game (‘what do you do for a living?’ - sadly I ended up using this)
We start exchanging our worst embarrassing moments, and our worst fears (apparently she’s terrified of cats). And suddenly halfway through a conversation, I stare into her eyes - and though this girl may not be a 10, she is as cute as fuck. And her eyes....wow!
So, suddenly we both stop talking, just looking at each other - and BAM, we slowly start making out right than and there. No word was said. I didn’t even need the Mystery kiss close.
So we're there, for like 15 minutes, initiating heavy kino, yet light enough - so as not to get her too aroused into S1 (Fool’s mate I believe is what it’s called?).
So afterwards I take her to the dance floor again, rejoining our friends – and there’s some severe hand holding. Good kino – and it felt quite nice to be honest.
Suddenly the slow music spontaneously comes out of nowhere, creating the perfect end for the atmosphere.
I'll even admit I felt a slight emotional tinge/connection. It felt really good, and reassuring at the same time. We ended up kissing some more, and she grabs my cell-phone and puts her number in along with her email. Right on!
Charisma: 'You know what? I can’t find some of my friends, we should forget about them, since they’ve already ran off to do their own thing. I say we hit Humpty’s for a bite to eat…I’m starving!’
Ashley agrees and I ran into Justin in the process.
My first successful bounce from the bar scene!!! ;)
Once we arrive there, we get pretty engaged into a deep conversation – and spontaneously get all excited and rejuvenated! (By the way, I would like to point out that Justin is a kick ass wingman, and knows exactly what to say to keep women intrigued. I could learn a thing or two from him.)
Once we paid for our meal, we jump into a cab, and eventually stop at her place to drop her off. Meanwhile I’m sitting beside her in the backseat (we found Jeff along the way, swaggering in the streets, lol. And they wonder why I quit drinking) and she opens the door slowly to get out. I catch her hand slightly before she leaves to say goodbye and she looks at me as she’s halfway out the door....
Leaning forward, while she’s doing the same, we kiss again, and she smiles (I swear there was a tinge of a blush too!).
Charisma: 'Night babe. Keep in touch alright? You have my cell and I’ll give you a call sometime.' (We exchanged numbers earlier when she gave me hers)
She waves gleefully and we head back to Shilo, with Jeff starring at me with a slack jaw.
‘Where the hell did that come from?!’ *laughs* It was a nice ego boost to hear that, I’ll admit.
And just to clarify, the trip is like a 20 minute ride from downtown to get back to the base. The entire time, I kept getting text messages like 'You're sooo amazing!' and 'You're too good to be true!' *Grins* I never had a girl pay that much attention to me before (minus the crazy 35 year old cougar woman….but that’s a whole another story!)
A good night all around, and even now, I’ve been chatting with her on msn. And I believe there’s potential to move this to a date easily in the near future. :) Which might mean I could have a potential girlfriend in the near future.
Hopefully that will conquer my fear with women once and for all! (Seduction is my major sticking point – I’m terrified of it, but SO intrigued by it.)
Well that’s basically a wrap boy. Happy gaming!
Sincerely
-Charisma
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