EMSIC –
My first recorded Field Report posted on socialimprovementclub.com/forums, under Field Reports. (Note: you need to be a member to view the other files.)
(Location: Canadian Forces Base
User name: Charisma
Category: Journal
Date:
Charisma’s Field Report File #4
Now, for Field Report File Number 4:
Warning – a lot of drunken emotional drama – not meant for the faint of heart – lol.
Houston’s (The Second and only club in
Things were a lot different. I practiced sorely on the whole day and dedicated it to my sticking points. I recorded sound bites, I read previous Field Reports that are not stated on this site – my own of course. I went out for a breath of fresh air to clear my head and re-strategize my intents and goals.
I went out with Justin, and another fellow who was in the infantry. We shot some pool to begin with – had a good social vibe for the first bit – I was supposed to meet with Amber (a HB that picked me up last week) that night, and received a few texts saying she was there. Rather than running over to her like her lackey, I stuck around and whooped my buddies in pool (one of my favourite activities to do).
3 other infanters came around to our group – and this approximately where the social vibe of the group went to a plummeting low.
Each went downstairs, huddled in this dark corner (I shit you not); clutching a beer in their hands like it was some sort of life preserver. None were even the slightest bit social able. If they did talk, it was about the infantry – guns, and military tactics; things that well, simply have no effect on me. Leave the army at work, and home at home is what I always say. That …=D and I am an electric technician, not an infanter – so it was all gibberish, lol.
So I was like – Fuck this! I just walked up to a random set and ran the ‘Do I look gay opener’.
One thing I forgot to mention in my Field report from Thursday Night….A gay guy actually approached me.
Lol – hey a compliment is taken where it’s given. Who cares?
So, the routine was actually congruent with everything about me, body language, words, mind – because it ACTUALLY happened! It was amazing, because I saw the hook took a serious bite to it. I quickly ran into the ‘Hey did you see the fight outside?!’ which I actually memorized Mystery’s story in his sarge video with the whole catch line, ‘And her boob plopped out, and normally I would say, ‘Hey welcome to
She loved the entire bit, and I could tell there was an IOI. Not bad for a first warm up set. My inner game was definitely a lot stronger. With nothing to follow it up, I ejected politely, and found Amber right afterwards. Exchanged a hug (kino), told a quick story about when I rode a kids
But here’s where the awkward came in. Heather, another girl who I grabbed their number from, was friends with Amber – and I never called her. (Hey, it was her fault – the last thing she said to me was ‘Hey! You better call me or I’ll hunt you down…’ Yah, you’re winning me over Missy. Puh-leez) So she was very self conscious, but I managed to switch the scenario around. And before you know it – seriously guys – I had two women fight over me.
It was such an ego boost. Watching two very good friends fight over who gets the PUA (in training). *laughs* I thought there was actually going to be a bitch fight over it too! But no, instead I managed to convey this to each other as a jealous plot line. Both were trying to sway me over, both admitted they were heavily attracted to me.
Now the Drama… (In shorten form):
• Ashley, a girl I really liked, who was potential Girlfriend material, texted me)
• She was Hammered
• She was emotionally fucked up – because I told her I wasn’t necessarily looking for a relationship.
• She tried to play cool at first, but you know what alcohol does to you…
• She kept saying how attractive I am, inside and outside, and how ‘I hijacked her brain’ weird…I heard Mystery used that before…
• I felt suddenly guilty for what I was doing, causing her to feel like that (slight AFC emotion)
• I texted her back with a small joke to make her feel better
• I lost interest in the two women in front of me
• I went over to the bank machine, opened a HB 9 while I was at it – gay opener again – she was expecting me to ask for her number when I said ‘Hey I need you to help me out! This is dead serious!’ She gave a slight kino check rub and said, ‘You’re very cute’ and walked off. Hmm, where was the ‘Hey! This shit ain’t free!’ Ah well, live and learn.
• I left the bar, because I didn’t have my original group to fall back into.
• I texted Ashley, and told her that I was re-considering about going in a relationship. (Funny how a bad experience from a one-itis will bring back fear and doubt.)
• She wasn’t sure on how to take it…worse she was more hammered
• I called her, and that sparked a gong show of a emotions for fly on her end.
• I’ll spare you the details.
• Meanwhile, Amber and heather are texting me, asking, ‘Where are you D=’
• Amber was full of herself and kept sending superficial texts, ‘I was told I have the nicest legs in the bar, the mini skirt really has its ups’
• I finally got back to the shacks, and didn’t get any sleep till 4 am in the morning, because Ashley was a wreck. And now I’m supposed to call her today, to straighten things out.
• She became a very awesome friend, guys – so I can’t just blow her off. *sighs* Drama…I hate it.
- You’re a Venusian Artist. Don’t put up with other people’s shit.
- Secondly, a perfect relationship in Shilo won’t exist. So lighten up and have fun
So now I’m considering giving the sarging thing a break – unless I’m in Winnipeg of course….and just simply get into a relationship, work on getting rid of the virgin card, and actually have some experience in comfort and seduction – and actually get some confidence with women past the Attraction phase.
Besides, I want more women in my life – influential women. Not one night stands. So maybe I should give it a shot? What do you guys think?
(Oh, and Ashley has tickets for me to the biggest social in Brandon, so I can’t really shake her off at the moment, otherwise I’ll miss the biggest chance to socialize with people…I might ditch her and open sets after sets if she becomes a problem.)
Sticking Points
1) Congruency with routines and story material – but I actually managed to get to that point – BONUS
2) Forgot some routines that could have been used – one liners. Practice makes perfect
3) Sarging in Brandon is a big no no; unless it’s a last resort. Find a crew that wants to go to Winnipeg at least twice a month.
4) Dealing with drama
So there you have it. Success and failure – but in a way, the failure can be used as a tool to be successful.
That’s all I have for now Gents.
Till another time, Happy Gaming.
-Charisma
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